It’s much easier to navigate the harrows of life without making stops to show compassion and kindness to your fellow travelers. As we continue on our personal journey trampling those around us, who are making the same climb, becomes a second nature. Like crabs in a bucket, anytime a fellow reaches the cusp of escaping their own harrowing journey, there is someone more than happy to grab at their leg and pull them back down into the darkness. The darkness we all fight so desperately to escape.
Acts of kindness or compassion seem almost against human nature.
But why?
Most of us are ill equipped to tackle the journey alone.
What makes it so difficult to push each other towards the top in the mad climb up?
Who enjoys reaching the cusp of personal achievement, only to be dragged down by circumstance?
Why do we turn around and tear each other down?
Is it bitterness from experience; a psychological conditioning that we must tear those around us down because that’s what was done to us and we now know it to be commonplace?
There has to come a breaking point where collective minds go against the dog eat dog status quo and choose compassion and kindness over selfishness.
Is it that much more difficult, to the point of impossible, to help one another up? We could all make this climb much easier if we banded together instead of going alone.
Imagine a world where people took the extra time to ensure other’s dreams come to fruition. The beauty of everyone achieving what they set out for. Hands reaching out, grasping, pulling, and helping the steady ascension to the top. Creating a ladder of success, a ladder built from kindness and compassion. Would be a lot easier than clawing your way up alone.
The shift in mindset, in taking each other’s hands, won’t come easy. We have been hard wired to fear one another. To expect the knife in the back. Those who choose kindness are used, abused, and called fools for caring for others. Focus on yourself, because everyone has an ulterior motive, right?
Wrong.
Are we not exhausted and dizzy from spinning in circles looking for acts of betrayal that seem to follow success so rapidly?
For fucks sake! There is plenty of room at the top! Don’t fear overcrowding. Fear being alone with no one to revel in success with.
So here is the call to arms. Take the time to uplift one another. Do it for the simple enjoyment of helping someone better themselves. In turn, you better yourself, as a human being. In turn, you better the world, by being a part of success instead of failure.
Prove that this world doesn’t run on the sacrificing of people’s dreams. If everyone helps, we build a ladder to the top. Each rung of compassion is easier than gripping at the walls, hands ragged and raw, struggling alone towards the top. There is no satisfaction at the top when you’ve watched all your friend’s disappear back down into the abyss.
It’s easy to lose oneself on the way up, especially if you have to trample people to get what you want.
So, the challenge. To be kind. To be compassionate. To break the conditioning of selfishness. Be a light in the darkness and help those around you achieve greatness, so that you might reach greatness in yourself.
Is it so hard?
Is it too hard?
Beautifully put. I really like the imagery of the crabs in a bucket – I’ve seen that and it’s a powerful thing to relate to π
I kind of hope that you put this on the linkie too, when we all publish our 1000Speak posts on the 20th π It’s great.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank you! Teach me how to linkie and I will do it!
LikeLike
On the 20th, there will be a number of blog posts containing a button, you click it and follow the instructions to add your URL for your #1000Speak post to the collection. It’s straightforward once you have it in front of you. We’ll announce in the group when the linkie tools go live π
LikeLiked by 1 person
Oh I can’t wait!
LikeLiked by 1 person
I love this.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank you! π
LikeLike
This is so true and so well written. I love it. So many need to read this and understand it is easier to work together. You did brilliant on this.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thanks Rachel!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Compassion is hard for some folks.. Lol kill them with kindness.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Ya heard!
LikeLike
Wow, what a great piece! I wish everyone would take your words to heart, how much better would the world be?? Might need to reblog this…
LikeLike
Bravo! Really, really love this!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thanks Sandy π
LikeLiked by 1 person
Oh, how this gives me all the feels! You’re such an amazing writer, leader, Dad, Husband, friend. I’m so proud that you wrote this, Briton. I truly needed to read it. Hugs from this Hussy!
LikeLiked by 1 person
It’s better to enjoy the company of friends along this difficult journey we call life. And if by helping someone else, we make a new friend, then the more the merrier I say! Awesome blog!
LikeLiked by 2 people
“Are we not exhausted and dizzy from spinning in circles looking for acts of betrayal that seem to follow success so rapidly?” Wow, Briton. You are so right. Too many people are trying to bring each other down. I’ve always had a hard time becoming friends with women for this exact reason. I try to build up rather than break down. I’d like to think I was the crab at the bottom of the bucket pushing the other crab out. Thanks for sharing. Great piece.
LikeLiked by 1 person
I gave myself a pat on the back for that insight. It’s nice to meet fellow cheerleaders π thanks for reading
LikeLike
Very well written! I love the imagery put into this piece, Briton! You really should consider submitting this to a bigger site. π
LikeLiked by 1 person
Awww thanks DQM
LikeLike
You write with the wisdom of someone much older than you are “For fucks sake! There is plenty of room at the top! Donβt fear overcrowding. Fear being alone with no one to revel in success with.” Ask a successful person how many friends they have. The number is revealing. Very well said, Sir.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Beautifully penned. I agree, there’s no satisfaction at the top when you’ve lost your friends. It’s much fun, to walk together.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank you, now to spread that mentality!
LikeLiked by 1 person
*applauds* Yes! Yes to this all. I honestly don’t get why people are so eager to bring others down. What good does it do in the end? What good does it do if you don’t have people around you to celebrate all the successes in life with? Personally, the light that I like to shine into this world only gets brighter when I help people out.
Very well written! ^_^
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thanks you for reading!
We need more light shiners in the world and less light stealers
LikeLiked by 1 person
YES! ^_^
LikeLiked by 1 person
Pingback: 1000speak: Wearing Glasses Tinted With Judgement. - The Whimsy Art of TJ LubranoThe Whimsy Art of TJ Lubrano
Love this. I’m so tired of watching people pull each other down.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank you Lisa! So am I! I hope this compassion movement shifts mindsets!
LikeLike
How very true!!! I think the best way to get the crabs to stop climbing over us, would be to simply offer them a boost. Doesn’t really matter who gets there first, does it?
LikeLiked by 1 person
Or chop off their fucking legs.
I mean, yes, compassionately help one another.
LikeLike